Becoming a father is good, but you should as well be expectant of some whole lots of new adjustments it comes with.
Ranging from moments of groaning in pain of your wife, through labor and down to delivery and finally, afterwards. They are moments your ego will be really bruised.
Get ready for some poops, vomits and much more that is better experience than been talked about. Many things really are the considerations, below are some of these.
- Will I be capable of caring for a baby?
With the news of having a baby broken out to you by your
wife, comes a mixed feeling of apex-level joy and immense fear. The fear most times is of incapability. We become prone, more than ever before, to fears of not doing enough, not been able to satisfy the expectations of your wife from you in supporting and caring for the kid as the father.
- How will this change our relationship and sex life?
Truth is, if you have an easy going lady as wife and have never had any course to quarrel before, now becomes the time for it. Take it or leave it, many things will change. You’ll surely have reasons to quarrel now than ever before. For many, it is all self-satisfaction they want. They consider how much of sex weekly their wife will give them, how much she may nag if they ask for it, hence, they get stuck if they should ask for it or just keep their cool.
- Pressures and jest from friends?
To garnish the endless list of the mixed feelings and thoughts you’d consider is the pressure and jest from your friends.
Some friends can be really pressure mounting to the extent of joking over you being put in a cage by the pregnancy, you not being able to go out to enjoy with them of your own volition etc. all because your wife could say, “stay with me, baby,” and you won’t have any choice other than staying that day.
All these and many more are considerations of you becoming a father. However, one way out I have found and discovered, and have always told new fathers is: Just be calm, if you could handle your adolescent’s stage gross urge for sex, arousal, release of semen while sleeping and all, then you’d handle this pretty well too. And, it goes as simple as that. Frankly, things go cool and way easy for us when we handle with care. But we could also talk about it to our wives too. Talk about how much commitments you’d have, love, care… put it all out, set pace for yourself and be determined to meet up and you will!