Kids Day Out in a Kombi


One thing I’ve learned over the years is that some kids love the outdoors. Sometimes just long drives along the coast or through the city are enough to get them all excited. If they are young enough, it can make them realise there’s a whole other world out there waiting to be explored.


Seeing that sense of wonder in their eyes is remarkably satisfying.


A quick trip along the road seemed like a good idea for the kids in my care. I decided to book a VW Kombi because I was feeling nostalgic for them.


As a plus side, they had a lot of room. These beauties look small on the outside, but there is a surprising amount of room in the interior.


I got mine from The one I asked for had a cooler for drinks and snacks, in case the kids got hungry. I didn’t have a real destination in mind, but I figured that getting the kids out and about would be a great idea.


One of them, Steve, is young enough that he hasn’t seen much of the world outside the house. He took to the trip the most. The little guy seemed to marvel at every little thing we passed by. He’s the most curious of the bunch.


Antony was less enthusiastic about it, but he turned around eventually. He didn’t care for the city, I think. He only really started paying attention to what was outside when we drove out into the countryside, on the way to the coast.


Crystal seemed to enjoy herself. She gets out more than the other two, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen quite as expressive as I did on the road. She was talking more and livelier in general.


Of course, all good things come to an end. As I began the drive back, the kids didn’t seem too fond of it. They were tired, though, so it wasn’t too hard to convince them.


The drive home was quiet. I need to get them out again soon.



How to Make Your Children Learn More Through Strengths

When you check out your son or daughter, what do you see? Do you start to see the innocent sweetness he exuded as just a little one? Execute a grumbling sometimes appears by you, grumpy adolescent? Will your attention go to your son or daughter’s latest success or her recent problems? What we focus on with this kids becomes the truth that people see, cultivate, and nurture.

Of course just how we see our kids stems from many factors: the sort of day we’re having, the sort of day they’re having, human hormones (theirs and ours), life level, stressors functioning on and all around us; 1 day we look at life in a sort or kind of happy vacuum, and the very next day we might feel anxious, dragged down, and demoralized.

The way we choose to see our children influences more than our own state of mind; it make a difference their self-concepts. And their self-concepts impact all the “classrooms” with their lives: the playground, the athletics team, the checks they take, and the goals they make (or negate) for themselves. These classrooms help create their sense of what’s possible individually. We are able to all verify the significant influence of any important adult on what we should imagined as easy for our lives, growing up.

Seeing Strengths
The strengths-based point of view. Before, subconscious treatment protocols for young families, adults, and children centered on pathology and deficits. However the strengths-based approach emphasizes assets, competencies, and abilities. There’s been a substantive body of research conducted on strengths-building during the last 40 years through organizations like Gallup. Their research grew out of an movement to look at positive mental/human probable. The Gallup Organization’s research on human being performance targeted over 2 million people (internationally) and attempt to answer fully the question: can it be that the best gains in individuals development derive from investment in what folks do best in a natural way? Their hypothesis was validated when they discovered that individuals gain more, building on the skills than when they make equivalent efforts to really improve their regions of weakness*.

Ask any school-aged child what his weaknesses are, and he’s more likely to have ready mental usage of a set of deficits he has internalized about himself. But ask what his talents are, and you’ll face a clear look in conjunction with a noisy silence. If you ask me, men and women and children are hesitant to invoke their talents when asked about them. Whether it’s insufficient confidence, messages they’ve heard from their surroundings, or ignorance of what they prosper, kids’ inability to recognize and articulate their strengths is lamentable.

When children know their personal advantages, it not only helps them develop and develop, it empowers those to leverage their resources in learning new information, fixing problems, and considering in creative and innovate ways. I encourage all learning students to leverage their talents in these self-promoting ways. Like by using a muscle, the greater a strength is exercised, the more robust plus more integrated it becomes.

A strengths-based approach will not imply celebrating mediocrity, arbitrary praise for normal expectations attained, or looking over areas requiring improvement. Child development experts will let you know that selective encouragement targeted at specific works will benefit your son or daughter much larger than vague, regular reminders of his / her smartness or “greatness” as a person. This leads us to the value of paying attention to the outstanding and unique gifts our kids own individually. –Not showering praise superfluously. And for weaknesses, it could be essential to perfect habit that produces counter-productive benefits. But how effective is our focus on them? Perhaps our focus has been myopic-focused generally on deficits and remediation. I’m suggesting that people hone the focus: toward developing strengths and building on talents–while acknowledging, understanding, and managing weaknesses.